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Being Polite in Spanish: Using “Me Gustaría” in Spanish for Desires and Requests

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In this lesson, we will explore how to use the phrase “me gustaría” to express desires and polite requests in Spanish. This phrase is especially useful in everyday conversation when you want to express what you would like in a courteous manner.

Objectives:

  1. Understand the usage of the phrase “me gustaría” to express desires and polite requests in Spanish.
  2. Learn how to use “me gustaría” effectively in everyday conversations to express preferences and requests courteously.
  • “Me gustaría” is the first-person singular form of the conditional tense of the verb “gustar.” It is used to express a polite desire or preference.
  • “Gustar” in this context implies that something is pleasing to the speaker, and “me gustaría” literally translates to “it would please me.”

Here is the full conjugation of the verb “gustar” in the conditional tense to express desires in Spanish, using the full pronominal structure:

SpanishPronominal StructureEnglish
A mí me gustaríame gustaríaI would like
A ti te gustaríate gustaríaYou would like (singular, informal)
A él/ella/usted le gustaríale gustaríaHe/She/You would like (formal)
A nosotros/nosotras nos gustaríanos gustaríaWe would like
A vosotros/vosotras os gustaríaos gustaríaYou would like (plural, informal)
A ellos/ellas/ustedes les gustaríales gustaríaThey/You would like (plural, formal)
Spanish DialogueEnglish Translation
Penélope:
Me gustaría visitar la playa este fin de semana.
Penélope: I would like to visit the beach this weekend.
Antonio:
A mí también me gustaría. ¿Qué te parece si vamos a Marbella?
Antonio: I would also like that. How about going to Marbella?
Juan:
Me gustaría aprender a surfear mientras estemos allí.
Juan: I would like to learn to surf while we are there.
Lucía:
Y a mí me gustaría sacar fotos de la costa.
Lucía: And I would like to take pictures of the coast.
Abuela Rosa:
Me gustaría simplemente relajarme en la arena.
Abuela Rosa: I would just like to relax on the sand.

When expressing a desire or preference for multiple items, “gustar” in the conditional tense must agree with the plurality of the objects being liked. This involves changing “gustaría” (singular) to “gustarían” (plural).

Here’s the conjugation when referring to liking or wanting multiple items, along with a brief explanation:

Pronominal StructureSpanishEnglish
A mí me gustaríanMe gustarían las casas.I would like the houses.
A ti te gustaríanTe gustarían los libros.You would like the books.
A él/ella/usted le gustaríanLe gustarían los coches.He/She/You would like the cars.
A nosotros/nosotras nos gustaríanNos gustarían las películas.We would like the movies.
A vosotros/vosotras os gustaríanOs gustarían las canciones.You (plural) would like the songs.
A ellos/ellas/ustedes les gustaríanLes gustarían las flores.They/You (plural formal) would like the flowers.

Explanation

  • “Gustar” changes to “gustarían” because the verb must agree with the plural nouns (houses, books, cars, etc.) that are liked or wanted. This agreement is crucial for grammatical accuracy in Spanish.
  • The indirect object pronouns (me, te, le, nos, os, les) indicate who is doing the liking, and they remain the same regardless of the number of items.

Example in Context

Suppose the García family is discussing what they would like to buy for their new home:

Family MemberSpanish DialogueEnglish Translation
Penélope
A mí me gustarían las cortinas nuevas para la sala.
I would like new curtains for the living room.
Antonio
A nosotros nos gustarían unos sofás más cómodos.
We would like some more comfortable sofas.

This table exemplifies how to use “gustar” in conditional tense with plural nouns to express desires, illustrating a practical and real-life family conversation about home decoration preferences. This usage is fundamental for effective communication in Spanish, especially when discussing likes and preferences in group or family settings.

Assignment: Ordering Food in Spanish Using “Me Gustaría”

Objective: Practice using the conditional form of “gustar” to express desires politely, specifically when ordering food in a restaurant setting.

Scenario: You are at a popular Spanish restaurant known for its bustling atmosphere and delicious cuisine. The restaurant is starting to fill up quickly, and you want to place your order before it becomes too crowded. Today, AmigoGPT, your virtual waiter, is here to take your order.

Instructions:

  1. Choose at least three dishes you would like to order from the menu. Consider including a starter, a main course, and a dessert.
  2. Use the phrase “me gustaría” to form your sentences, indicating what you would like to order.
  3. Click on the chatbot button on the right, then click on its microphone and start placing your order, addressing AmigoGPT as if you were speaking directly to the waiter.
  4. Be polite and clear, ensuring that each item you order is distinctly requested using the conditional form of “gustar”.

Example: Imagine you are ordering from a Spanish menu. Here’s how you might write your assignment:

Hola AmigoGPT, buenos días. Dado que el restaurante está empezando a llenarse, me gustaría hacer mi pedido ahora. Para empezar, me gustarían las croquetas de jamón. Como plato principal, me gustaría la paella valenciana. Y para postre, me gustaría el flan de caramelo. ¡Gracias!

Translation: Hello AmigoGPT, good morning. Since the restaurant is starting to fill up, I’d like to place my order now. To start, I would like the ham croquettes. As a main dish, I would like the Valencian paella. And for dessert, I would like the caramel flan. Thank you!

Task: Now, it’s your turn to start placing your own order using “me gustaría”. Try to include details about why you chose these dishes if you want to expand your assignment. For example, you might say “me gustaría la paella porque me encantan los mariscos” (I would like the paella because I love seafood).